Abdomen picture question + hairy body :(

[Dojomaster]

Originally Posted by cursor

Just remember, life could always be worse ...

do you think if i exhibit "manliness" and "confidence" that girls won't care that i am hairy?


And to Cursor AHHHHHHHHHHHHH

[.V.]

Just be confident in yourself and most of them really won't care. Sure, a hairy back may be a turn off for a few, but many just really don't care that much as long as you are the kind of person they want to be with and show confidence in yourself.

If it bothers you, get a trimmer and razor then get to work. After a bit of practice you can do the whole body in only a few minutes. You may have to have some help on the back though if it's a problem unless you are very limber. A back wax would cost roughly 35.00 US and last up to 2 months.

[Dan C]

Originally Posted by Dojomaster

do you think if i exhibit "manliness" and "confidence" that girls won't care that i am hairy?

F it dude! Being hairy is a "manly" thing! I say that not to sound macho, but simply because women are not hairy like us. Women are the ones who shave their body hair, not men!

You need to become comfortable with yourself. Only then will you find a girl who is comfortable with you. And if you think chest hair will prevent you from meeting the right girl, then that girl was not right to begin with!

My wife didn't like chest hair until she met me. But my dashing good looks and wonderful personality over shadowed the small stuff. I had an ex-girlfriend tell me she liked skinny guys until she met me. Whatever. A little bit of body hair doesn't make the man. And while looks are a concern for women I'm sure, they tend to give personality a little more attention.

Something else to consider is at your age you're just starting to meet women... not girls, women. Women and girls think differently. Girls like boys; boys who are petite, hairless, cute, etc. Women like men. Be a man.

[cursor]

Originally Posted by Dojomaster

do you think if i exhibit "manliness" and "confidence" that girls won't care that i am hairy?

Remember that you don't have to impress all of them ... hell, not even most of them. Be confident, kind, compassionate & strong. Most importantly, be yourself.

[.V.]

Originally Posted by cursor

Remember that you don't have to impress all of them ... hell, not even most of them. Be confident, kind, compassionate & strong. Most importantly, be yourself.

Cursor, I'm glad you are back and posting again. Helpful as always.

[maverick]

Originally Posted by cursor

Just remember, life could always be worse ...

I knew that picture would come back to bite me in the ass.