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AT what rate are you losing now? If you feel you can lose more, do more, and eat more often. No, don't eat less. Smaller portions, more often. Nothing wrong with eating 7, 8, 9 times a day. Just smaller portions.
Counting calories? How does a chart know the rate your thyroid works, vs the rate mine does? What if you jam harder on stage than the next rocker? Who is to say what # calories you burn? And then there's the whole slow cardio, vs fast cardio and how it changes your resting metabolism (or doesn't, depending on who you believe).
Bottom line? Listen to your body, not to web sites.