You need to make the question clearer. For the most part you should set a plan and stick to it. If the weight you are using doesn't seem like enough, make some changes and up it a little. If you don't feel your cardio is long enough or that you can go a little faster, then either go a little faster or make it a little longer. If you feel like you can do more push-ups or the number you can do in one sitting is getting ridiculous, put some weight in a back-pack and do them like that until the number becomes more manageable.
As far as keeping a pace in cardio, thats just trial and error. You need to find something that is intense enough that it keeps you working for your planned time, but at the same time that you can also maintain for that amount of time without bursting over your maximum
heart rate.