ROFL!!!!!
retro: you worry too much. the body adapts - that's what it's designed to do: adapt to stress.
follow a sensible
workout program, maintain good form, and you'll be just fine.
btw: my knees are shot because of the way i'm built. just normal, everyday walking grinds at the cartilege because i have something called "chondromalacia patellar" - means my kneecaps, instead of riding smoothly up and down the femoral groove like a streetcar on a rail, slam and bang all the way up and down like a luge on an olympic run. that's from two causes: very wide hips, which gives me a wide q-angle (the angle of the quadricep from hip to knee), and very loose
connective tissues (means my kneecaps don't have the support they need). it's a common condition among women.
i have two options: i can sit here and piss and moan about my bad lot in life and end up in a wheelchair as i get too heavy for my knees to bear, or i can suck it up and do something about it. needless to say, i decided to do something about it: squats, deadlifts, leg press, SLDL, and glute-ham raises.
if joint health is very important to you, start taking a glucosamine/chondroitin/MSM compound. that will help rebuild and protect your cartilege.