I've so been there! It especially got bad when I started Max-Ot without a spotter. I've had the same types of issues... going up to the next set of DB's can be a big jump and my form is sloppy. Sometimes, I can keep at it and my form stabilizes by the next week. I've had instances though where it just wasn't happening so instead, I upped my reps. (I'll note that I am typically not a fan of higher reps, but have found it necessary on occasion to be able to graduate to the next set of DB's.) Best of luck to you!

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