It's weird cause all I want to do is just forget everything and just eat healthy foods when I'm hungry and be active. I could probably have an AMAZING body if I just did that. But I'm stuck in this mindset. The traditional bodybuilding method has been preached as the one and only way to do things and anytime I think about doing something different like lifting with dumbbells or
bodyweight exercises instead of barbells, I start to get this voice in my head that says, "That's not how everyone else does it so if you do it that way, you'll get nowhere." The problem is that we don't see enough people out there who have fitness/bodybulding as PART of their lives. It seems like almost all of the best looking people out there focus their efforts soley on looking good. To me that's not really living a
healthy lifestyle. You might look healthier physcally, but some of these radical diet methods can have negative internal effects. And mentally this whole process can really mess with your mind. It can make you judge yourself and put a lot of unneccesary stress on yourself to achieve something that really isn't all that important. Think about it. Why do people want to get cut? To look good because they feel it attracts the opposite sex. But you don't have to look like a model to do that, you just have to look ''presentable". If the confidence is there, a guy at 11-12% body fat can get as many if not more women than a guy at 7% body fat. The point is that rather than focusing only on improving how your body looks, it's better to go for a balanced improvement of your mind, body, and spirit. In this case, you can have your cake and eat it too. My hope is that I can get to the point again where it all just happens naturally and I don't even have to think about how many calories I'm eating or whether I'm doing enough sets/reps. There are so many other aspects of my life I'd like to work on especially since I'm going to college this fall. Like I said, I want for fitness to be part of my life, but I want it to be a building block for a better me, not the hammer that tears me down.
Wow that was pretty deep. I didn't know I had it in me lol
