Maxi hold your head up high and march right over as if you deserve them! I flaunt it while buying BBQ Fritos and whole milk at 11pm at the local convenience store. Usually I'm waiting in line with the smokers and the stoners buying ciggy's and pop.
Yesterday I took my son (back from Calgary now) out for a bagel breakfast. It was so crowded in there. I got the really long lingering judgmental once-over by two fat ladies squeezed around a cafe table. I didn't need a
tape measure or scale to know my accomplishments. I made sure to pass by their table again when we were on the way out. I got the same "assessment" and shot them a friendly affirmation smile that said I caught them at it and
"thanks for the compliment".
Those people don't know anything about me. Why should I feel embarrassed?