Would you start taking a pill if your bf called you fat?

nneehhaa · 10-Mar-04, 03:56 PM

Would you start taking a pill if your bf called you fat? You can lose wieght with exercise but pills would make it faster. What would you do?

BigPete · 10-Mar-04, 04:02 PM

Dump the boyfriend

i would never come out and call my girl "fat", theres ways round that, encourage her to exercise yeah but dont just come out and call her fat, thats gonna make her feel terrible, i wouldnt want someone i care about to feel terrible

Lee J B · 10-Mar-04, 04:06 PM

LOL! Oh man, no way I value being able to make babies, you wouldn't catch me calling any girl nevermind a college girl fat

.... Seriously don't be pushed into supplements you don't need over someone pressuring you.

10-Mar-04, 04:38 PM

Your bf made a mistake. He meant you were phat.

Lose the weight by changing your eating habits. Then lose another 200 pounds by dumping your bf.

atherjen · 10-Mar-04, 07:54 PM

Id loose the boyfriend fast. thats total disrespect!
and pushing pills or supplements on anyone isnt right either.
if your going to loose weight or change your body or do anything even, it should always be FOR YOURSELF, not anyone else.

acegator · 10-Mar-04, 07:59 PM

Don't dump him just yet.. use him as a punching bag until you get your BF % reallllly low.

Jackal · 10-Mar-04, 09:35 PM

use him for sex and gifts then dump him.

genEus · 10-Mar-04, 10:18 PM

I know this may sound horrible, but one of the reasons I broke up with my ex was because she didn't care for sport/gym/nutrition stuff. Not only that she just wasn't a health freak like me - she went against everything I believed in in regards to being healthy and fit. She would regularly eat junk and fast food, with no regards to the nutritional content, eat rice at midnight before bed, etc. and never stepping a foot into the gym. She wasn't what you would call "fat" - and she did have a nice body, but she had extra pounds. I'd been spoiled by the magazines advertising fit women who CARE about their weight and diet.

Before you yell at me for being so superficial, this was by far not the deciding factor in our relationship, but I can tell you, it was just one more thing that annoyed the hell out of me - that I was working my ass off to look better and have more energy (for her) - and she couldn't offer me any support in this area.

heh, just my 2c.

nneehhaa · 11-Mar-04, 11:21 AM

See, I feel like i need to lose weight so is he wrong. I think he feels exactly the way geneus does. I have been with him 4 years now. I wasnt this big earlier. But maybe I am wrong by not caring enough to have a good body. I care now. I have lost about 30 lbs. But everytime I put on even a single pound. I see that the way he behaves changes. But I know this is for me too!

genEus · 11-Mar-04, 01:01 PM

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Originally Posted by nneehhaa

See, I feel like i need to lose weight so is he wrong. I think he feels exactly the way geneus does. I have been with him 4 years now. I wasnt this big earlier. But maybe I am wrong by not caring enough to have a good body. I care now. I have lost about 30 lbs. But everytime I put on even a single pound. I see that the way he behaves changes. But I know this is for me too!

nneehhaa, if you've been with him for FOUR years and this is the way that he reacts, then surely dump him! The girl I was talking about - we'd been together for only about a year, and it wasn't until we had other major disagreements that this factor also came into play. But, four years is a serious enough time to really stop caring about appearances, or at least not put the relationship in jeopardy JUST because of that. Find out what really bothers him if you can. You may see that your extra weight (as you say you have) is not the main reason for his attitude.

Octagon · 11-Mar-04, 01:08 PM

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Originally Posted by nneehhaa

But I know this is for me too!

Slow down. What's that 'too' doing in there?

As for pills, no. You're obviously not comfortable with the idea or you wouldn't be here asking about it and if you're not comfortable taking ANYTHING then don't take it.

(That goes for insults too, btw)

D'Antony · 11-Mar-04, 10:27 PM

You should want to lose weight for you....not for anyone else. And a person who reacts everytime you put on an ounce of weight, just isn't worth your time.
Find someone who's going to love, care, and honor you for you...and not what's on the outside. Yeah, we all want to look our best, but taking those pills won't get you there. And by the way, what about him? what does he look like? A pot can't call a skillet black when it's ebony itself!
Anyways, keep reading the different threads throughout this website. You'll gain a ton of information and positive feedback when addressing a question. I hope you do what pleases you...and no one else.

D'Antony

sillyme · 12-Mar-04, 11:38 AM

Girl - get rid of that boyfriend - fast!!

Atherjen is right, that is totally disrespectful and hurtful. He should be building you up, no tearing you down with rude/hurtful comments. Dump his sorry butt, take good care of yourself - and find a guy who is a better person.

camerashy · 12-Mar-04, 12:42 PM

is there such a pill!?!?!?! news to me!

nate · 14-Mar-04, 01:39 AM

kick him....right in the balls, right squar in the balls.....